I wrote before about how I'm sometimes late to the party, either in hearing about an artist entirely, or in hearing a band, rejecting them and then re-discovering them later.  Now that I know this about myself, I will often give a band that's hyped a second or even a third chance.
Now sometimes this just doesn't work out and I never really see the brilliance in a band that everyone else falls head over heels in love with.  Like Arcade Fire.  They're okay, but I don't see them as the most brilliant artist to come along in the last 20 years.
And sometimes I hear a band and I think, they have a cool sound, but the songs aren't grabbing me.  And after a number of listens, the brilliance starts to show through.  This is what happened to me in a big way with The National and Interpol.  They have taught me that patience is a virtue, and reminded me of the fact that songs don't always show their brilliance with one listen.  Sometimes songs take a while to show you their wonder.  Their melodies unravel, layered musical parts show their beauty and lyrics reveal their imagery and meaning.
Here's a video from The National for "Conversation 16".  I had previously posted a clip of them doing this song on Letterman.  I love the song.  And I really like the show Mad Men.  Great TV show.  And this video has the guy who plays Roger Sterling in it.  So why do I hate this video?  Who knows.  Maybe it's brilliance will shine through after a number of listens.
I haven't been shy about my love of the song "Games for Days" from Paul Bank's solo project Julian Plenti.  "This is how we learn."